Thursday, 16 March 2017

Choices

Read something on twitter and it wrote " is love a feeling? OR is it a choice?". 

Initial thoughts? Feeling. Love is a feeling. 
We fall in love with the feeling of love or the person that makes your heart flutter.
Love could also be a moment of passion.
All that I could link love with was feelings and emotions. 

However, this tweet changed my perception of love. 
"Love was a choice. It was a conscious commitment. 
It was something you choose to make work every day with a person who has chosen the same thing."

At some point in time, the feeling of love will fade, you no longer feel butterflies in your stomach 
or want to take that extra 5-10min to dress better to impress loved ones. 
The feeling is something that always changes, just like your crush since primary school up to now. 
Is it still the same one?

When things get tough do you stay and resolve everything? 
Or you just leave? 
Is it worth fixing and recreate or do you just want to walk away?

Everything we do or want to do is a choice. 
Today we make the decision, a conscious one just don't regret it tomorrow. 

So is love a feeling or is it a choice?